2nd day of married life
LxndreaSB
Hi Peeps!!

I AM BACK..

What was the first thing I did for my hubby since he moved in here??

Activate the Astro account again!

Hahaha.. My last payment apparently was in October so for 3 months I was out of television. I did it for a few reason. First we do not watch tv that much. Second, Angelus does. So I needed to wean him off from that and instead concentrate on outdoor activities. He has a cousin who spents most of his time in front of the tv playing games and PS2. No way my children are gonna sloth like that!

The next thing I did is to blog, which I am doing right now. The wedding was hectic with so many LAST minute preparations and changes. Oh my gosh. It was chaos at one point. But another point I was relieved and glad. I will definitely walk you guys through the whole thing, with PICTURES!

3rd thing would be to book for a hotel in one of the islands that we plan to go this coming weekend. We did not plan for it earlier cos we did not really know what to plan anyway. Spontaneous works better with us. So we agreed on this. A friend of us ask whether we are going to Bali since hubby talked about going there. He said that we will go later. So this weekend is sort of like a 'rehearsal' honeymoon.. whatever that means. Hahaha..

Now the big question. When will the next addition in the family comes? Hhhmmmm... Since morning today I was excited on the idea of carrying another baby in me. And this time a baby with the man that I love. But but but, we have already planned earlier that the baby would only come next year. Also I have to plan in such a way that I would not be too heavily pregnant in early 2009, cos that would be a preparation period for my sister's wedding. I plan to coordinate it, if she wants me to la.

Finally, I am already planning for a trip back to the Land Below the Wind on April, for my dad's installation as a District Governor for Rotary. So hopefully I will get a good deal on that.
Till the next entry which would be mostly on my wedding day. And here is a sneak peek on my Civil Registration at JPN..






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10 more days and counting..
LxndreaSB
My wedding is less than 2 weeks now and I am exhausted. Not to the fact that I am physically running around doing all the preparations, but mentally and in terms of health, I am way down there.

Today is my first day of the "irritating-monthly-painful-thing-that always comes at the wrong time", and yesterday was somehow quite mentally exhausting for the both of us because of an argument by one of his family members with him.

Sigh.. Less than 2 more weeks, and people are creating havoc for us. Why-la?? This is supposed to be our big day, not yours. And to top it all some of them forgot that they are younger than us and had the nerve to do that. Kids I tell you. Ok I know that they are concern and all, but please la. Be a little bit diplomatic right. We are stressed here and it is 2 MORE WEEKS left ok. What is your problem????!!

Now that is the problem when we have cultural differences between us. I mean us for example, you and I are maybe in our mid 20's or 30's. Do we go up to an elder person and speak rudely to them? When we hear things do we clarify with the person or straight away tongue-lash like nobody's business. And if we do do that and get ample scolding for it (padan their muka), do we pergi mengadu to our mummy and ask her to defend us?

No right. What we did wrong, stays wrong. But if we still cannot admit that, then people will not respect us. We should know our place and THINK first before saying things that will actually jeopardize something or hurt someone.

I just want to say to this people, you are way younger than us. We have been through more than you. We appreciate your concern but it should have came with more respect. We are going through a lot here and it is enough that this is a sensitive relationship, we do not need the added stress from you, just because you did not clarify with us or to the other party involve. So please do that the next time and not make things worst than it already is.



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I am Mrs Jerryson Doss!
LxndreaSB
It is already the second day of a brand new year. So what have I achieved..:

1. A heart to heart talk with my hubby on the future plans and direction of our new family, which I emphasize would be more spiritual than materialism (since we are already secured till the day we die. And that means putting at least 4 or 5 children to university).

2. Bonding with the spiritual group of hubby's family

3. To be spiritual leaders ourselves especially in our family and to guide Angelus to love and learn God.

4. To do more charity work and expose those involved in charity in my new blog - http://unsung-heroes.blogspot.com/.

Jerry's resolution for the year is to become a better father to Angelus. Well he is doing a good job now actually. But I guess both of us can be better parents when our actions are aligned with God's plans for us.

Till then, Have a Blessed Day!!
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